Well, hintsoflife.com is shook beyond measure and one of my creators had to undergo a life altering experience. But it’s all sane. We have a strong woman on board.
They say “De mortuis nihil nisi bonum and De mortuis nil nisi bene”
Translated to – It is bad to speak ill of the dead.
So in commemoration of the many dead relationships, an article on the reasons why women will take the final steps and leave behind her man.
Women in Relationships
In a relationship, there are times when matters go beyond a saturation point. It is those situations, when a woman takes a stand, and chucks everything. There have been times innumerable when there is so much to say but all you can do is leave the other person behind. It is either the other person is incapable to get the gravity of things that you say or you plain and simply know that there ain’t no ray of hope in the future with that person.
It is pretty evident that a woman is willing to give up the world for the man she loves. Most popular reasons why a woman leaves her man behind are as follows.
Maybe There’s that Oedipus Complex He Has
According to studies, there are men who are driven towards their mothers in away that isn’t healthy. This kind of behavior has a profound psychological effect on a woman. And it’s the negative one.
Everybody loves their parents and everybody should. So that’s totally normal. If your man is way too into his mother, cannot let any thought pass by without thinking about the mom, then for sure there will rise issues which will escalate. All this can get to the point where you can no longer have a life with your man. Maybe such men need some much needed motherly love and that’s all.
Accusing a Woman of having Skyrocketing Aspirations
The most important thing a person has earned for himself/herself is career, that passion. A life that you build on your own is something to think about. And then there is that man who accuses an ambitious woman of having and thinking about curating and moving forward in her select career. Any woman would probably leave you in the blink of an eye, if you attack her career choices and aspirations.
You Find Yourself Alone all the Time
A partner is someone who is with you through thick and thin. Just reflect on the fact that if you are your own hero and that if you are always alone handling stuff. If yes! Then probably your man ain’t a partner but a baby you have adopted. Also if its not only your own things that you handle but are also keeping the relationship together, then for sure it is time to revise things.
No woman will tolerate working for herself, for the other person and for the relationship as well.
Your Opinions Get Ignored
Every time a decision needs to be made, it should always involve both the parties. When your man ain’t considering and involving you in a decision then it is because your voice isn’t mattered. Any issue that’s important or maybe even trifling, requires your opinion too. If your opinions aren’t involved, then there is definitely something wrong.
Not being a full fledged feminist but in some male chauvinist societies there is a sick mentality where women and their thoughts are discarded as pure garbage. No woman of today will take this hooey and it’s high time to live happily on your own and dump him.
You are Being Compared to Other Women
The biggest subject where a woman, without losing a second, leaves her man is where she is being compared to other women. These women you are being compared to can be some colleagues of his or simply his mother. Any man who loves you for who you are will definitely, not in his full senses, will compare you with anybody.
When comparing and nagging is involved, the relationship becomes a drag. As a woman indirectly your self worth is at stake and your values are questioned. Any self respecting woman will undoubtedly leave such a man.
You Wonder if He Cares ?
Any man who has the slightest of love and feelings will make efforts to show you that he out of all people in the world care. If this person you are in a relationship, makes you question whether or not he cares, for sure is doing something wrong. Make your woman feel comfortable around you, communicate and put effort into the relationship.
Nonetheless, there is surely the reason that if your man is caught cheating on you. If you as a woman get a hint that your man no longer cares, flee right out and live your life the way you should. Make those plans afresh and chuck the past.